Identify the account you knew
Keep the dating or social profile, contact name, phone number, and links used during the relationship.
When affection became a request for money
You cared about them. They used that to ask for money.
The financial loss may be only part of what hurts. If someone built a relationship with you before asking for payments or an investment, AllyPro offers a place to discuss the facts without blaming you for caring.
- An online partner repeatedly needed financial help
- An investment was introduced as part of your future together
- Promises to repay or meet kept being postponed
- The person became distant when you questioned a payment
Understanding your experience
You do not have to justify why you trusted them.
The attention may have felt real, and the requests may have arrived only after weeks or months of contact. Feeling attached to the person can make it harder to decide what to do, even when the money is gone.
We focus on the details relevant to the loss: how you met, when money entered the conversation, what you were asked to pay, and where it went. You can explain those events in your own words.
We help put the relevant messages and payments into a record for considering reporting and recovery options. What can be done depends on the payment details, timing, and applicable rules; we cannot promise a return.
Keep the context around requests
Save the conversations showing the reason for each payment and any promises to return it, without editing the originals.
List what you sent
Record each amount, date, payment method, recipient, and the explanation you were given at the time.
Share only what the review needs
Keep sensitive files private and account access details out of documents. We can discuss which parts of the history are relevant.
Finding the details that help
Save what explains your experience.
Missing a document does not prevent a first conversation. Keep the messages and files you have in their original form; we can discuss any gaps.
How the contact began
Profile links, usernames, phone numbers, email addresses, and the platform where you first connected.
When money entered the conversation
Messages about emergencies, investments, repayments, or plans together, including the surrounding conversation.
Where each payment went
Bank receipts, crypto transfer references, card statements, gift-card receipts, and recipient information.
Questions you may be carrying
A few things you may want to know.
What if I still have feelings for the person?
You can care about someone and still question what happened. Pause further payments and sensitive disclosures, and keep the messages while you seek support and assess the situation.
They introduced an investment. Does that change the review?
We look at both parts: how the relationship led to the investment and what happened to the payments. The messages and platform records can help connect them.
Do I have to send every personal message at the beginning?
No. Begin with a description of the situation and the payments involved. Keep the full history safely, and discuss which relevant records are needed before sharing sensitive material.
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